The Disappearing Act - When People Vanish as Soon as You Start Winning
You ever notice how some people love you the most when your life is one big, flaming dumpster fire?Like, when you’re crying in your car, eating soggy fries of despair, mascara running like a crime scene, and texting your bestie “I can’t do this anymore” for the 17th time that week, they’re there. Oh, they thrive then. They show up with comforting advice, half-baked affirmations, and iced lattes they definitely paid for with your emotional energy. They’ll pat your shoulder and say, “You’re doing your best.” They’ll send you inspirational quotes like they’re the Dalai Lama with Wi-Fi. But then… you start doing better. You start healing . You start winning . You start waking up and not immediately wanting to throw your phone into the ocean. And suddenly? They vanish. Gone. Poof. Like my motivation after a single email marked “urgent.” No goodbye. No congratulations. Just silence. Like your glow-up triggered their allergies. Because here’s the plot twist nobody warns you abo...




